Last night, I happened to be trawling around some of London’s gay entertainment establishments. I was struck by how much things have changed since John Ashbery was moved to write his classic elegy to AIDS, How to Continue. Here it is, lest we forget.
How to Continue” by John Ashbery
Oh there once was a woman
and she kept a shop
selling trinkets to tourists
not far from a dock
who came to see what life could be
far back on the island.
And it was always a party there
always different but very nice
New friends to give you advice
or fall in love with you which is nice
and each grew so perfectly from the other
it was a marvel of poetry
and irony
And in this unsafe quarter
much was scary and dirty
but no one seemed to mind
very much
the parties went on from house to house
There were friends and lovers galore
all around the store
There was moonshine in winter
and starshine in summer
and everybody was happy to have discovered
what they discovered
And then one day the ship sailed away
There were no more dreamers just sleepers
in heavy attitudes on the dock
moving as if they knew how
among the trinkets and the souvenirs
the random shops of modern furniture
and a gale came and said
it is time to take all of you away
from the tops of the trees to the little houses
on little paths so startled
And when it became time to go
they none of them would leave without the other
for they said we are all one here
and if one of us goes the other will not go
and the wind whispered it to the stars
the people all got up to go
and looked back on love
There’s an interesting essay about Ashbery in this week’s New York Times books section. His most recent collection, “Notes from the Air”, was published last year.

Comment by Lee Rudolph, 20/04/08, 05:26:
W. H. Auden maintained that A. E. Housman loathed himself for liking receptive (_vice_ insertive) anal sex. At least he didn’t live in an age where indulging that liking was a serious additional risk factor for early death.
Meanwhile, when not engaged in his day job (of translating from the, ahem, Greek), he wrote a lot of damned good cryptohomoerotic (and perhaps explicitly ephebophiliac) elegies.
. With rue my heart is laden
. For golden friends I had,
. For many a rose-lipt maiden
. And many a lightfoot lad.
.
. By brooks too broad for leaping
. The lightfoot boys are laid;
. The rose-lipt girls are sleeping
. In fields where roses fade.
(_A Shropshire Lad_, LIV.)
Comment by elizabeth, 21/04/08, 12:13:
Girls sleep and boys get laid. Ho hum.
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